13. When you were growing up, people called you big boned. Seriously, big boned? Doesnt that sound like youre some kind of dinosaur with self-esteem problem? Its just not fair to call a kid big boned! Firstly, it can leave serious consequences on how that girl sees herself, and trust us, girls need as much support as possible when it comes to their physical appearance. So stop calling people big boned, and start calling them to go for an ice cream. An ice cream is always a good idea.